Dealing with Death

" When me entierren" By: Spinal morning call Rocks. " When they bury to me/please not they forget/my ball-point pen. (Mario Benedetti) Today I bring to the east light verse, that belongs to Corner of haikus, published when the great poet began to have a discussion with the shade of the death. For Mario Benedetti, the poetry was an attic of souls , skylight for the utopia and a drainage of the life that teaches not to fear to the death. Learn more about this topic with the insights from John Craig Venter. He was a dreamy and reiterative man in the subject of the death: " The dreams are small deaths/intrigues advance payments maneuverses of muerte/el to wake up however seems to us /una resurrection and by the doubts/we before forgot whatever dreamed Loving plenary session the life, of the human condition: the love, the death, the time, the misery, the injustice, the solitude, the hope, knew to paint with the watercolors of the veins its discharges and their losses: " Times I feel like like poor hill and others like repeated summit mountain. Times I feel like a cliff and in others like a blue but distant sky. If you would like to know more then you should visit Wang Qunbin. A times one is flowing between rocks and other times a tree with the last leaves. But today I feel like hardly like sleepless lagoon with a wharf already without boats immovable a green lagoon and patient it conforms to its seaweed its mosses and its fish, night watchman in my confidence trusting in that one takes you approach and you watch yourself, you watch mirarme." Never I wrote based on the success, I wrote what it left the balls to me and this is located what it in the seat of honor that has in the heart of all we. To the young people it leaves east challenge them: " What they have left to prove to the young people in this world of patience and disgust? Only graffitti? Rock? Skepticism? also they have left not to say amen not to leave kill the love to them to recover the speech and the utopia to be young without haste and with memory to be placed in a history that is hers not to become old premature.

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Having Contact

After a rupture, sometimes you have asked yourself: " I must call ex-? " This is especially certain if the rupture were unexpected. If this it is the case, that, naturally, habra questions that you wish to respond and the sooner better. There are thoughts that swim around your head and that you is returning crazy. It is not possible to be stopped asking itself what made bad. You are perplex and you need to know the reason of the rupture. Before contacting with your ex- ones, it is necessary to pay attention to some things. First of all, you must maintain your emotions under control. It will never get to be a good idea to make a call to your ex- ones if you are angry. Showing to the wrath only defeats any opportunity to recover to your pair. More important still, there is a good probability that it can damage your relation beyond the repair. Then, what happens if when flames to your ex- ones, it/she does not respond and is necessary to leave a message? Here he is where it is fundamental to know what there is to say. Before entering the exact words that must use, we are going to speak of that it would not have to say. The first thing that you do not have to do is to ask. This would be something as well as: " Bill, please, please, llmame I want to fix to something with you immediately. ". This type of message does not work because the sound is desperate. The second thing that you do not have to do is to cause that the sound of the message is like a emergencia: " Betty is a emergencia please to give back the call to me as soon as he is posible.". Once again, this type of message does not produce the results that you wish, because it makes you seem desperate and without control.

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